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When Discomfort Goes Looking for Relief

Reading who ends up holding the comfort Different Currents Under the Same Surface · Article 3 of 5 This is the third article in a five-part series. The first two articles are here. A facilitator I worked with was assisting in a group where people kept getting their pronouns wrong, session after session. At one …

Peacebuilding When We Disagree (Podcast)

Click here to listen to the full interview! With election season 2020 behind us, there’s a lot of talk from winning candidates about opposing …

Unpack This!

Heartful responses to microaggressions

Making Sense of These Times (Video)

In this live-streamed conversation, I discuss the opportunities that NVC provides for understanding and transforming racism.

Kwanzaa Reflections – Kuumba

Today, the 6th day of Kwanzaa, is a day when I’m so annoyed at this extended pandemic! As we celebrate today’s principle from …

Kwanzaa Reflections – Nia

This morning, folks in my house listened to Paul Robeson sing Ballad for Americans as we started our Kwanzaa reflections. Robeson, born in …

Kwanzaa Reflections – Ujamaa

The principle of Ujamaa – Cooperative Economics – is deeply embodied within African-American communities and communities of African-descent folks worldwide. Living from this …

Kwanzaa Reflections – Ujima

This morning, the third day of Kwanzaa, my teen and I discussed today’s principle of Ujima – Collective Work and Responsibility. They immediately …

Kwanzaa Reflections – Kujichagulia

On the second day of Kwanzaa, we contemplate the principle, Kujichagulia. On the official Kwanzaa website, Kujichagulia – Self Determination – asks us …

Kwanzaa Reflections – Umoja

As the year comes to a close, I’ve decided to share a little of my family’s tradition. When my children were born, I …

Cross Privilege Dialogues: Avoiding the Trap of Centering Yourself When You Have More Privilege

Download PDF I have a dear friend who has become a treasured empathy buddy. Once a week, we call each other and share …

Viewing Needs through an Equity Lens

At a retreat, I supported a conversation between two men who had experienced a break in connection. One man of Chinese and European …

Calling In, Calling Out

In progressive circles, several topics are often raised when someone behaves in a way that’s painful to another person. Discussions come up about …