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Not every conflict is yours to carry

Someone asked me on a call recently how I approach conflict. She was really asking about communities. How do you build a culture where conflicts get worked through, instead of set aside until they harden? I do not think I gave her the answer she expected, because I did not start where she started. Before …

Peacebuilding When We Disagree (Podcast)

Click here to listen to the full interview! With election season 2020 behind us, there’s a lot of talk from winning candidates about opposing …

Unpack This!

Heartful responses to microaggressions

Making Sense of These Times (Video)

In this live-streamed conversation, I discuss the opportunities that NVC provides for understanding and transforming racism.

The Power of Authenticity + Care

Where in your life do you stay silent and not show up fully? What prevents you from showing up? Do you wonder if …

Leadership Lessons from the Civil Rights Movement

My life is spent traveling between different lands. There is the land of my NVC family. This land is full of people who …

Increasing Diversity in NVC Circles

I have participated in dozens of NVC events around the world. If the gathering is in the United States or in a European …

“I’m Not Good Enough” and Other Leadership Myths

I sat in the back of the room thinking, ‘I should say something.’  I knew the work. I had more relevant examples. I …